Book Review: The Natural Superwoman

by on February 11, 2008
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I was all set to find some brand new wisdom in The Natural Superwoman, by Uzzi Reiss and Yfat Reiss Gendall, that was going to set my life on some new stellar course. Then I opened it and the authors spend the first forty pages describing their revolutionary solution for weight loss: eat less. Why don’t I have my own fancy-covered book filled with insights for the masses? Frankly, if I had picked this pretty pink tome off the shelf at Barnes & Noble, it would have gone right back. However, because I needed to give the book a fair review, I read on.

The most interesting thing they had to say about eating was that our cave-person brains (love cave-people theories) were wired so that whenever food was in front of us, we ate as much as possible because we never knew where the next meal would come from. In our modern lives we’re still working with those outdated brains. This makes sense to me. It’s why I can’t stop at just a few tortilla chips. Who knows when another nacho truck will salsa down the street.

The meat of the book is really its explanation of bioidentical hormones and how these are NOT bad for you and in fact very good and we all should be hounding our doctors to get smart on our options. All the information presented was very confusing and I’d be happy if my doctor would just read up herself and then tell me what to do. But those are not the times we live in. Unless you are fortunate enough to have a very good doctor, you are likely to have to do some medical research yourself. This book is a great starting point for discussions with your doctor.

The thing I liked best was the authors’ attitude that women truly know their own bodies. They make a point that we can all strive to live ideally – that anything less than ideal is something that can be tweaked to get you to a better state.

Also interesting to moms is the discussion about early onset puberty in girls. According to the authors, it’s not only the homone happy milk (because milk cows are kept perpetually pregnant), but also environmental pollutants and soy products that are sending our girls into puberty at younger and younger ages. All that, plus the chips we can’t stop eating – body fat tells the body to start menstruating.

Guess what else is happening? We’re going into menopause earlier than we used to. A girl can’t win. But then, this is what the book is all about, supplementing with diet and hormones. At one point the authors suggest you could get so familiar with your testosterone levels that if you had a big event coming up that you needed to be extra assertive for, you could supplement your testosterone for the day. That sounds like a lot of work to me, but I’m kind of lazy. I may change my tune when I’m facing menopause, which according to this book could be any day now – and I’m only 38.

There’s something for men in the book too. Near the end they recommend breast massage to stimulate the lymph. I know you can get help with that. Enjoy.

For more information, check out the author’s website here.

The Pigeon Wants a Mojito

by on January 28, 2008
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Don’t ask me why I love the Pigeon. Maybe it’s the sparse illustrations, his attitude, or maybe it’s just how few words there are in a Pigeon book. The first time I read Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus I was hooked. Now author Mo Willems is holding a contest to name the next book and I think it’s time for cocktail hour at Pigeon’s house. How about you? Go to http://www.pigeonpresents.com/ by March 10th and enter for a chance to win a visit to your child’s school and a complete signed collection of Pigeon books. 100 runners up get a signed copy of the new book. I’m pretty sure the mojito comment is worth at least that!
PS – You can also send e-valentines cards featuring Pigeon from here.

For Hipsters, Geeks, and People Like Me

by on January 18, 2008
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I started reading Wired magazine in 1997. It’s very mod and techy, but they hooked me on an artilce about Burning Man because I’m a little fascinated with modern counter-cultural grooviness. It was pretty and and hip and it made me sound smart when I ate lunch with the partners at a certain once-great-but-fallen accounting firm.

I recently subscribed again – mostly because of an issue they put out a while back featuring lego robot stuff. (My son is practically a Bionicle.) It’s got this great mix of cultural and techy stuff. It’s a way cool and ageless magazine. Their website is here if want to check it out online, but I like the longer features best and for that you just need to turn pages, right? You can also get updates sent to your phone, participate in forums, or sign up to receive a monthly newsletter about books they review. I’m signing up for that, so I’ll let you know if I find any books you can’t live without!

Follow Your Heart in 2008

by on December 21, 2007
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If You Want To Write, by Brenda Ueland has been recommended to me for years and I finally picked it up last month. Loved it! Very gently, the author encourages you to do what it is you want to do – whether that’s write, paint, scrapbook, dig in the garden, sing, cook, or anything else that engages your creativity. Her premise: Everybody is talented, original, and has something to say. Just get out of your own way and let it flow.

I know, know, know, my writing buddies will take something special away from the book, but it’s for the rest of you too. Ueland envisions a world where people operate from their happy places more often than not. And then she gives specific advice on how to find your own.

In chapter ten she counsels women to forego some of the housework in favor of something they truly love. We’ll be better mothers for it because “…the only way to teach is to be fine and shining examples.” Love that. While the writing style is pretty old-fashioned (the book was first published in 1938), her message is lovely and clear enough to make up for it. Happy reading!

Get and give If You Want To Write.

Review: The Daring Book for Girls

by on December 4, 2007
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The Daring Book for Girls, by Andrea J. Buchanan and Miriam Peskowitz is a collection of instructions for girls of all ages on everything from telling ghost stories to changing a tire, from making a tree swing to reading tide charts. If you have any girls on your list this Christmas, you’ll want to pick up a copy. You’ve probably seen the gorgeous volume on bookstore shelves. It’s vibrant blue cover with vintage font title in silver glitter holds inside the secrets every girl must learn, at whatever age she can.

My seven-year-old daughter has been begging me for the book since it arrived and as I look over the many pages I have marked as my favorite, I find her notes as well. She has attached a purple post-it to page 11, where she has been practicing her cursive writing. And we loved learning the correct words to Miss Mary Mack. What I love the most is that the authors have snuck in some very good *gasp* educational sections in between all the fun. There are several sections on notable women in history and a wonderful list of books to change your life.

Many of the instructions in The Daring Book for Girls brought back fond memories of girlhood. For example, I’d always heard of other girls playing mysterious games at slumber parties, but I never had the chance to play Light as a Feather, Stiff as a Board. Now I do, plus I learned about the history of levitation. The book teaches young girls valuable skills as well. The section on building a campfire is followed immediately by a collection of campfire songs. And the instructions on writing letters is more important than ever in our world of text message shorthand. The other day my kids asked me what the stock market was. Now I can answer intelligently simply by turning to page 226 and reading the section title Finance: Interest, Stocks and Bonds. How cool is that?

Perhaps what struck me the most were instructions for things I not only wished I’d learned earlier, but I’m still learning! I know I will be referencing How to Negotiate a Salary, and Public Speaking again.

Find out more here or by watching video of the authors’ appearance on The Today Show.

What Are You Reading?

by on November 15, 2007
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Sylvia’s Insight is participating in a Book Meme, and because she’s got a couple of my favorites in her picture, I thougth I’d join in. The picture above is my nightstand today, although I have to admit I’m not reading all of them at present, but I like the look of a bigger stack anyway.

1. How many books do you own?
Don’t know. About 200 probably. I’m not too sentimental about keeping every book, but I have started keeping a list of what I’ve read.

2. What was the last book you read?
This morning I was reading John MacArthur’s Twelve Extraordinary Women. I mostly could not disagree with him more.

3. What was the last book you purchased?
I just ordered Turning Memories into Memoir by Denis Ledux.

4. What five books are most meaningful to you?
This question is way too hard. MOST meaningful? That carries too much weight. How about just five amazing books? Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak, James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl, The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood, The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron, Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg

5. What is your most obscure favorite book?
I love Redeeming Grace by Mary Ann Powers, but it’s not available… yet.

I would love for any readers to participate either on their own blogs or just here in the comments! You don’t have to answer all the questions, just let us in on a few tidbits of your reading life!

Book Review: The Right Words At The Right Time

by on November 8, 2007
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Marlo Thomas has given us a gift in her new book The Right Words At The Right Time, Volume 2: Your Turn. You may recall the first volume, which featured words of wisdom received by famous people and the impact those words had on their lives. This book, in my opinion, is better because the people are not celebrities or in any other way more remarkable than the average reader. We can all relate to many if not all of the storytellers in this work.

What do you call a spelling bee, tennis practice, a soccer fund-raiser, one dentist appoinment, two sick guinea pigs, a three o’clock board meeting, and a full-time job? In my house that’s referred to as Tuesday.

I used this eerily accurate description of my own Tuesdays by contributor Ame Stargensky to justify my strategy for reading this book and writing this review on time. I wouldn’t read the whole book, because there are so many stories in it, I couldn’t possibly comment on each one of them. Therefore no one would know if I hadn’t read all of the stories.

I started reading, satisfied with my cleverness, but I didn’t count on the engaging and somewhat addictive quality of the personal anecdotes shared so generously. More than even the words spoken to various ordinary people all over the country, what impressed me was how the entire course of a life can be altered in a single moment. I couldn’t stop turning pages. And each story goes so quickly you’re ready for another. So I made a good way through the book before I realized that I wasn’t really doing the justice to the stories that way either.

This is a book to be savored. Each story stands on its own and provides plenty of wisdom for those who seek. Perhaps the best way to read this book is one story at a time, in the morning, as a sort of devotional for the day – the words that changed another’s life becoming a meditation for our own.

But that takes discipline. Turns out there’s yet another, easier way to take comfort from The Right Words At The Right Time. Ms. Thomas has organized the stories into topics like Friends and Family, On The Job, and Keeping the Faith. Wherever you find yourself searching, you can open the book for a brief encounter with someone who has stood where you now stand.

I love this book. I would give it as a gift, in hard cover form and with an accompanying journal for the recipient to collect his or her own right words.

Find out more here and here.

Book Review: The Reincarnationist

by on October 16, 2007
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The premise for The Reincarnationist, by M.J. Rose is fascinating. An accident arouses past life memories for a skeptical photographer. He copes with the episodes by learning everything he can about the phenomena of past life memories in children, as well as reincarnation theory. His search for understanding leads him to an archaeological dig in Rome where he witnesses a murder and is subsequently thrust into a mystery he can only solve with information gleaned from his past life.

It was Gabriella’s voice, Sabina’s face. The past and the present were superimposed on each other, and he was caught between them, knowing he couldn’t stay in both dimensions.

The action takes place in ancient and modern day Rome, as well as early 1900’s and modern day New York City. The author does a pretty good job acclimating the reader to the setting quickly, which is important with characters hopping around in time and space.

If you read for plot, you will love The Reincarnationist. It moves quickly and my only complaint is that the stakes didn’t seem quite high enough. But I may be picky. World domination may have gotten into the wrong hands if our hero hadn’t intervened. The constant reminders the author gives for what’s going on sometimes made me feel I was watching a soap opera, but maybe that’s how plotty novels go.

I rarely read suspense or mystery because the characters in this genre bore me. The characters in The Reincarnationist didn’t break the mold. They seemed to exist only to serve the plot. Worse yet, none were interesting enough for me to care about. Apathy had me skimming through the chapters to get to the end. However, by the middle of the book I have to admit to being fairly interested in finding out how things got resolved. While there were moments of wonderful character sketches, such as the brief look at the heroine’s landlady, most character portraits were painted with a large brush.

I loved all the information about pagan rituals, vestal virgins, and the roman requirement for Christian conversion.

The old ways would die a little more with every priest who was murdered and with every temple that was looted and destroyed until there was nothing left and no one to remember.

While rich in historical information, the whole novel seemed like a case for convincing the reader to believe in reincarnation. If that was Rose’s goal, she certainly went about it in a very creative and entertaining way.

Personal experiences led author and self-titled reincarnation obsessive M.J. Rose to dig deep into the subject of reincarnation. She has created a blog dedicated to the subject. It may be worth a look as she claims such figures as Einstein, Ben Franklin, and Mark Twain were believers.

If you read this book, come back and tell me what you thought about the sandalwood and jasmine!

You can find out more about author M.J. Rose at her personal blog.

Special thanks to the Mother Talk network for allowing me the privilege to review this book!

by on September 20, 2007
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Book Review: Money for Nothing, by Edward Ugel

Who hasn’t wondered what they’d do if they won the lottery? I know I’ve spent some time pondering how I’d distribute my millions. But the truth is more complicated than any of my fantasies. I don’t know what I’d really do unless it actually happened. I’d like to think I’d go on living my regular life, but with a whole ‘lotta extras! I realize it may not be that easy. In his book, Money for Nothing, One Man’s Journery Through the Dark Side of Lottery Millions, Edward Ugel gives us a tiny peek at what it’s really like when people win.

Money for Nothing is a fascinating look at a world most of us will never experience firsthand. It’s a page-turner and an intimate glimpse into the mind of a gambler. Plus, it’s funny – in a dark way and isn’t that the best kind? In the end this book was completely satisfying, albeit for different reasons than I had expected.

Ugel’s subtitle, One Man’s Journey Through the Dark Side of Lottery Millions, as well as the flap description sell a book full of anecdotes about desperate lottery winners and their dealings with the unscrupulous lump sum payment industry, which it is. However, what is even more compelling than the lottery winner anecdotes is Ugel’s personal story. It’s not really a book about the lottery. It’s the memoir of a compulsive gambler. The information and stories from the world of the lottery, and the fact that he ended up there are all merely the background for the author’s story.

A lot of tales of lottery winners seemed to start, but wither away before conclusion. I got the feeling that the author was ever cautious of legal action and that he filtered or left out key accounts of actual people. However, where Ugel speaks about himself, just the opposite is true. His personal story is constant and raw. I have met men (usually trying to sell me a stereo) who are the man Ugel was in his lotto industry days. It couldn’t have been easy to face his identity on paper with such an unflinching eye. Then again, this persona could be a fabrication ala James Frey. To me it doesn’t matter because in the end it’s a great read.

I loved the epilogue where the author focuses the narrative completely upon him, but I wished that material were more evenly represented throughout the book. For me, Ugel’s struggle with the beast of chance was more interesting than anything else and more of it would have only illuminated the other stories. Ugel drew some powerful parallels Ugel between himself and the lottery winners.

Another gripe is the constant message of how Ugel’s industry preyed on peoples’ poor judgment and weakness. Yes, I can understand how someone who suddenly becomes responsible for a substantial amount of money is bound to make some reckless decisions. But the author seems to imply in a vast generalization that winning the lottery is about the worst thing that can happen to a person. On the cover, Maxim magazine says, “You may never scratch a Quick Pick again.” Come on. I’m not much of a player myself, but if I were, would this book really deter me? I would have liked to read an account of your basic middle class winner who made some good and some bad decisions. I’m sure Mr. Ugel will provide us with a sequel!

Complaints aside, I loved this book. I was pulled through it. While Ugel disappointed me with the unfulfilled promise of the real story of lottery winners, his own story more than made up for it. Every time I closed the book I couldn’t wait to get back to it. I know a lot more now about the lottery and all that surrounds it than I did before, but I will be looking for another book from Ugel to give me even more of the dirty details.

Fridays Are For Cocktails

by on September 7, 2007
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Here’s a new favorite:

The Maiden’s Prayer:
1 oz gin
1 oz triple sec
1/2 oz fresh OJ
1/2 oz fresh lemon juice

Shake, pour, repeat.

Woowie!

And for reading material, the books I should have written…. Three Martini Playdate and Three Martini Family Vacation are on my wish list.

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