Give Me The Good Stuff

What is the worst gift you ever received from a significant other? (By the way, I can’t stand this term so let me know if you know a better one – and I don’t mean partner.) I have received a Dirt Devil. My favorite, though, was when he had my daughter write on my birthday card: Good for one free spa day. Yes, the spa fairy granted me a wish. Who’s paying? I asked. My daughter looked up at me – moron that I am – it’s free silly, she said, can’t you read? Top that.

I’m not really one to look a Gift Man in the mouth, but it’s not rocket science is it? After years of telling my husband exactly what I wanted, I finally broke down last year for Christmas and actually wrote him out a list. All he had to do was take the kids out and start checking things off. It worked. I’m pretty much converted. Except that it sort of takes all the hearts and bubbles out of receiving gifts. What if… he knew exactly what I wanted… but I didn’t have to actually tell him… directly anyway…

Introducing Get In Her Head, the site where you enter all your gift wishes and sizes, then sit back and wait for the good stuff to start rolling in. They even have a cool service where they send emails giving you ideas of thoughtful things to do for your Other. Yes, you can now fake spontaneity! (and ladies, your man can put his info in too, in case you forget that he wants the eight foot plasma TV.)

What would I do without Parent Bloggers Network to keep me updated? Go visit them today and find out what others are saying about Get In Her Head.

by on April 18, 2008
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4 Responses to “Give Me The Good Stuff”
  1. Anonymous says:

    Worst gift EVER: a USED fish tank with a dead Goldfish – okay it WAS alive, but died from the shock of cleaning the tank out. He has improved 200% since this First Christmas gift, but if we would have had the Man Trailer then, he would have been banished to it for a very long time!

  2. Mary Ann says:

    When my husband asks I reply “Jewelry is always good.” Thank goodness you can’t wear a canister set around your wrist.

  3. cole says:

    Great idea to go ahead and give him the list. Kate gave me the same kind gesture last year and it worked. We guys really want to make you ladies happy, we just need to know how.

    Alison Armstrong of UnderstandMen.com was kind enough to speak with us the other day about this very topic – why guys “just don’t know” like your girlfriends. The podcast should be up on the blog by the end of the day. Check it out!

  4. Lela Davidson says:

    Great, thanks Cole. We’d all like the know the answer to that.

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