Compliments Are Never Weird
Thanks to Kim Enderle at Peekaboo Magazine, I’ve had the crazy good luck to be read by a lot of Northwest Arkansans over the last year and a half. I don’t know how many people actually read After the Bubbly and Chasing Date Night, but I do know that I can’t get out of any social situation (yes, that includes Walmart) without someone mentioning something they’ve read.
I cannot tell you how happy this makes me. Deliriously, giddily, stupidly happy. That some snot mouth remark hatched in my highly scattered mind made you laugh? When I hear that, it’s the highlight of my day.
At a party the other night I introduced myself to someone who mentioned she was just reading me today and almost sent me an email to let me know how much she enjoyed my column.
“But I thought you might think that was weird.”
Let me state very clearly: compliments are never weird. Honestly, the more effusive the better.
What’s weird is when you compliment me once and I subsequently harass you each and every month to make sure you have not only read my columns, blog, and assorted Facebook and Twitter status posts, but that you were also so entertained that you had to stock up on Poise pads. That would be weird.
Thank you, Dear Readers, for playing along. And thank you, Kim, for creating a magazine people want to pick up!
by Lela Davidson on September 3, 2009
in After The Bubbly in Print, It's All About Me




Once when I was teaching a first grade music class, a child came up and timidly said, “I like your braces.”
Weird? Not at all. We’ll take it wherever we can.
(And I only read your blog, but I think you’re downright groovy, baby.)
HAHA…you’re adorable (btw, you can harass me anytime
@ DeNae – Yes, we take what we can get. Some people think I make great popcorn.
@Amber – Thank you! Coming to harass you now.
I agree, compliments are never weird and you are awesome, so it was well-deserved.
I got my article published in Peekaboo this month, but I can’t figure out where it is on their site…booo!
Congrats, Jasmine on getting published in Peekaboo. I’ll look for that. I’m not sure that everything in the magazine is also on the website. But we’ll keep an eye out. Thanks for stopping by, and please come back soon!
Thanks, Candance. I think I’ll go hang out at Walmart for a while and see if I can’t collect a few more.